Mike & I may be back from Jamaica, but mentally we’re still riding this whirlwind adventure.  There are so many boxes to go through, laundry to wash, and things to break-down, never-mind the thank you cards!  It’s all welcomed though.  The wedding might be over, but the adventure still continues.  I can honestly say I’m having the best time of my life.  Pictures to come, promise, but first, one last guest post so I can get myself together!

Liz, from Next in the City, is another favorite B2B (Bride-to-be) planning her wedding and sharing it with the interwebs.  She wrote some great advice for others in the same boat:

Well, gang this is my first guest blog post, ever! Very exciting, thank you Vicki – and congrats! I cannot believe you are married, now husband & wife! I thought the word fiancé took some time adjusting — the next “title” might be harder, but way more amazing!

While Victoria unwinds, I thought I would discuss how wedding planning in general affects relationships with friends, family, and of course – your fiancé! Many of my friends are already married – I have been a bridesmaid once and a maid of honor three times in the past three years – and every time another friend walked down the aisle, I was warned about the heartaches of planning. I brushed them aside, hoping that I wouldn’t feel an ounce of those pangs. However, I have and now I am that girl telling people to prepare for the sometimes unpleasant, confusing, and tricky decisions and frustrations that go along with engagements.
Friends want rights to your wedding, family believes they deserve the same rights, but where does that leave the bride and groom? Often bickering about these people and coming up with no resolution. Tiny examples of these situations include, several friends asking if they will be invited to the wedding (eeek!!!) – my response for the past year and a half as always been, “we are still finalizing the guest list” and my brothers asking me for six months straight if they will be groomsmen (“ask Jared!”). I have heard that a wedding is truly a “family experience”, and I believe to a degree it is, but when you get down to it (or down the aisle, actually), it really is all about the girl and boy whose names are on the marriage certificate.

So, my advice? Actually I probably need some, but I will say I have tried to brush aside these friend and family unpleasantries as best I can and just focus on us. All the wedding blogs I read every morning and Jared, my fiancé, have been wonderful at helping me remember this motto. So, brides: keep looking straight ahead because there is a light at the end of the tunnel – or actually a honeymoon! I see sunshine, white sand, and blue waters at my end and a lifetime of funny yet crazy memories waiting to happen. Being engaged is stressful, but life is short and sooner or later, you will be married!

Welcome Krysten, a favored tweep of mine.  She write a fantastic blog, of which I make time to check on the regular.  She’s a girl after my own heart, sharing an Etsy & all-things-handmade obsession. I swear without us, the handmade biz might go under…

Hi all! I”m Krysten from After ‘I Do’ and I am super excited to be blog sitting for Vicki while she’s off having all kinds of married fun!

Today I’m going to give you all some advice.  For those of you that are already married I hope you’ll be nodding along with this.  For those that aren’t, pay close attention!

• Something will go wrong.  Inevitably something with the wedding planning or the wedding day (or both) is going to go wrong.  My husband and I had plenty of drama leading up to the wedding, I was in a car accident the day before the wedding, one of my readers backed out at the last minute and it rained (and we had an outdoor ceremony).  Go into your wedding planning and wedding telling yourself that something could go wrong.  And if it does, try to let it roll off your back.  Marriage isn’t perfect.  Neither is wedding planning.
• Go with your gut.  It’s easy with all the wedding propaganda to get swayed.  Maybe you wanted to wear a red dress but you’re on TheKnot.com and all you see is poofy whiteness.  Maybe you want to walk down the aisle first so that you can watch your wedding party walk down after.  Whatever it may be, do what you want.  This is the one day when you’re allowed to do what you want, no matter what anyone else may deem weird or nontraditional.
• Eat.  On the day of your wedding take time to eat.  I know you’re a busy bride and you think you don’t have time.  I promise you will want to eat something.
• Pause.  I’ve heard from so many brides that their day just flew by and they barely remember it.  Take time to pause and take it all in.  Just stop for a moment or two and take a mental snapshot.
• Make lists.  Keep a list of your must have pictures so that your photog knows what’s important to you.  Have a timeline of how you want your day to go (but also leave a little room for spontaneity).  Have a list of everything you need the day of, such as band-aids, extra hairspray, mints, etc.  Lists will be your best friends.
• HAVE FUN.  I know you want everything to be perfect.  I know you’re a control freak.  I know you’re 3rd cousin is off getting drunk and trying to make out with everyone on your bridal party.  Stop worrying.  Let someone else worry for you.  It’s your wedding day.  Enjoy it.
  

Vicki I hope your wedding is everything you want it to be and I hope you have a fabulous honeymoon!  We miss you!

While Mike and I are away celebrating our marriage, some lovely readers offered to guest post for me!  First up is Meaghan from The Twenties Roar.  She’s planning her September wedding, so now that my journey is at the end (or the beginning?!) you can follow along with her plans!  She’s a fun, sweet, lady with a handsome man (“The Boy”) by her side.  And she is gracing us with the story of how they met…

She went out with her house-mates in her 2nd year at University for a night at the local bar.  After waiting in line they finally got in, and easily found a table – curse those fake lines! Just an ordinary night, out chatting and dancing with friends.
He went out to the bar “he made popular” with a bunch of friends. After enjoying a couple of pops, he informed his friends to “watch this.”

She looked up and saw a very tall boy leaning against the back of the booth she and her friends were sitting at.  Intrigued by his height she tried to listen to what he had to say, but didn’t really hear him so smiled instead.

Meanwhile, he pulled out his best material – “Oh sorry, I thought this was my table.” Not having heard him she simply smiled – he sat down.
The next thing she knew this tall boy was sitting beside her.  Pulling out more ace material “Do you come here often?”
She laughed in his face. “Did you just say ‘come here often?’

Slightly flustered he replied, “Yes, but not like that. I just meant do you come here?”
He introduced her to his friends, “This is bean! As in jelly-bean“
She laughed at his inability to remember her name and his quick thinking… tall and funny.  Intriguing.

They danced the night away. And she gave him her number, along with her name.
She thought, “He probably won’t call… but look how TALL he is!”

Seven years later, he became known as The Boy.
Eleven days shy of nine years after they met, they’re walking down the aisle:  September 10, 2011.